The four steps of the GROW coaching model are explained below –
Step 1: Goal
The first step of GROW coaching model is to define the Goal. The Goal is what you want to achieve and is the start of creating a new future. Usually, coaches begin their sessions with a goal-setting exercise.
When setting goals, it is crucial to ensure they are not too vague or too big. For example, you do not want to develop the Goal of losing weight. Instead, you should set a Goal to lose 10 pounds (4.54 kg) by the end of the month.
Likewise, you do not want to set the Goal of becoming a better coach, but you want to set the Goal of attending a coaching seminar next month. For example, here are some questions you can ask in this stage,
- What Goal do you want to achieve?
- What would you like to do in working toward this Goal?
- What will get you to that Goal?
- What do you want to modify or change, and why?
- What would the effects be if you achieved this Goal?
- How will you determine the results and measure the success?
Step 2: Reality
The second step of the GROW coaching model is to describe the current reality. It means explaining where the learner is now and what the situation is now. It is essential to fully describe the current situation so that the coach and the learner can understand the situation and any associated problems.
The more they know about the current situation, the more they can create solutions to solve any issues. Besides, the inner perspective explores the emotions and motivations connected to the desired change.
Coaches use open-ended questions to help the learner describe the problem thoroughly when describing the current situation. Because they want to know about their strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, and feelings. Moreover, they want to know what other people are doing in the situation. Furthermore, they want to know about opportunities & environment.
Some questions to consider in this stage, such as
- What is doing well right now? What is not?
- What can you learn and know from what has not worked?
- What could you do better?
- What are the current changes telling you?
- Where are you now concerning your goal?
- What has helped your success so far?
- What progress have you made so far?
- What steps have you already made towards your goal? What impact has that had?
Step 3: Options
Once we clearly understand the goal and where we currently stand, we can focus on what we need to reach our goal. This stage is referred to as “obstacles” or “options,” with options sounding slightly more favourable. Essentially, obstacles will stop us from getting from where we are now to where we want to go. Otherwise, we would already have reached their goal. In identifying those obstacles, we can find a way of dealing with them to make progress – these are our options.
During this stage of GROW coaching model, we awaken and encourage creativity to brainstorm options and strategies, daring to consider options we would take if all things were possible. Moreover, continue pushing for “what else?” and give space for pondering different ideas. Here are some questions to help explore options and generate solutions:
- Without filtering them, what are the first options that come to mind?
- What are some of the ways you could approach this?
- What do you think you need to do next?
Step 4: Will
The fourth and last step of the GROW coaching model is to determine your will. It means you want to assess your choice or commitment to taking the proposed actions. Finally, you want to commit to taking the steps and making them happen, no matter what.
When determining your will, coaches encourage the learner to tell themselves positive affirmations to help them commit to the action and believe in themselves.
Next, they want the learner to set a goal for themselves, such as “I will go to the coaching seminar next month” or “I will lose 10 pounds by the end of the month.” Then, they want the learner to visualise themselves achieving the goal and feeling the joy of success. Finally, they want the learner to constantly remind themselves of their commitment and why they are doing it.
Below are some questions to help support moving into action:
- What do you think you need to do right now?
- How will you know when you have done it?
- Is there anything else you can do?
- How will you track your progress?
- When are you going to start?
- How will you know that you have been successful?
- What support do you need to get that done?